How to be an almost perfect girlfriend/boyfriend..

Everybody knows that there’s no perfect relationship between a boy and a girl as lovers. May malaking pagkakaiba ang mga lalake sa babae physically, mentally and emotionally. But definitely, boys and girls were made and intended for each other in order for God to fulfill His mission --- to spread LOVE.

Kung bakit nai-inlove si girl kay boy, regardless of physical features, status in life, family background, etc, or vice versa, is no longer a big query. As long as her/his heart beats faster than its normal beat, makikipag-boyfriend or girlfriend siya, because that would mean that he’s/she’s in love!

Maraming differences ang girls sa boys, obviously. To name a few: showy ng affections si girl, si boy hindi; madaldal si girl, few words si boy; malakas ang control ni girl sa sarili, mahina si boy; romantic si girl, pero ang boys hindi lahat ay romantic. At syempre, ayaw rin ni boy na mababaw lang an gang feelings ng opposite sex sa inyo, di ba? And remember, there’s always a battle between your opinions. If in some little things ay may pinagtatalunan kayo, possible rin sa malalaking bagay.

If boys and girls have differences, they have similarities too in some aspects. Boys and girls want to love and be loved ‘deeply.’ Right boys and girls? Both boys and girls too need security. Siyempre, gusto makasiguro ni oy or ni girl na siya lang ang ka-relasyon ng kanyang boyfriend o girlfriend, di ba? Fidelity exists here. Dapat faithful kayo sa isa’t isa. Boys and girls also wanted to feel that they are very important to the opposite sex. Both parties would like to feel they are needed.

These things, are the realities who girls and boys are.

Pero paano nga ba nila magagawang harmonious ang relationship despite these differences and contrasts? Posible ba na maging good partners sila, as in super compatible? Why not, ‘di ba? For the sake of love, magagawa nila.

And that leads to be an almost perfect boyfriend/girlfriend.

AN ALMOST PERFECT BOYFRIEND

• ·         Befriend your girlfriend.
• ·         Give her your individual impression.
• ·         Exist in her life.
• ·         Treat your girlfriend tenderly.
• ·         Verbalize what you feel.
• ·         React accordingly.
• ·         Sweet response.
• ·         Woo her.
• ·         Love her eternally.
• ·         A proud boyfriend.

• AN ALMOST PERFECT GIRLFRIEND
• ·         Less commentative partner.
• ·         Submissive.
• ·         Ask permission.
• ·         Offer some variety.
• ·         Insist on heart-to-heart talk.
• ·         Never promise.
• ·         Give him U.P.S. (Understanding, patience & support)
• ·         Make papansin sometimes.
• ·         Be a girl.
• ·         One-man-woman.

• DO’S and DON’T’S of a boyfriend
• DO:
• ·         Agree
• ·         Be trustful
• ·         Be a superhero
• ·         Caress her
• ·         Be a man
• ·         Do something new
• ·         Talk
• ·         Experiment
• ·         Do some drama
• ·         Do your best
• DONT’S:
• ·         Don’t make hinala to your girlfriend
• ·         Don’t talk about your ex/exes
• ·         Don’t insist
• ·         Don’t be very emphatic with your girlfriend’s weaknesses
• ·         Don’t compare your girlfriend
• ·         Don’t let her feel that you’re not happy
• ·         Don’t tell your girlfriend na hindi na siya makakatagpo ng tulad mo kapag nawala ka!
• ·         Don’t go below the belt
• ·         Don’t be too egotistic

• DO’S and DON’T’S of a girlfriend
• DO'S:
• ·         Do your job
• ·         Do push him with his dreams
• ·         Do tell what you admire in him most
• ·         Do control your temper
• ·         Do beautify yourself
• ·         Do broaden your mind
• ·         Do everything but with limits
• ·         Do introduce him
• ·         Do tell your background
• DON’T’S
• ·         Don’t nag
• ·         Don’t use negative aliases to him
• ·         Don’t hurt his ego
• ·         Don’t be emphatic with his weaknesses
• ·         Don’t provoke him to be a war freak individual
• ·         Don’t let him feel that you’re losing your trust
• ·         Don’t give him a chance to flirt
• ·         Don’t be involved in malicious topics
• ·         Don’t hesitate to be humble with him
• ·         Don’t allow him to abuse you

This was excerpt from “How to be an almost perfect boyfriend/girlfriend” of PSICOM by Amelia G. Lince

This was my reference book

Natutuwa ako tuwing binabasa ko to ng paulit ulit para matandaan ko ang gagawin ko sa times na magkaboyfriend ako haha! Jv